Commuting to work has been normal for most people for a long time. It’s only recently that it has become common for people to replace their journey from home to office with one from the kitchen to a home office.
A Swedish study found that a marriage was 40% more likely to end in a divorce if one of the couple commuted 45 minutes. At least when the marriage is still relatively young. The study noted that if the couple made it to five years still married despite the long commute, there was only a 1% higher chance of them divorcing than a couple without that commute.
Since the study was conducted, it has become more common for people to only commute a few days a week, which likely reduces the impact it will have on their marriage.
It’s about time together
Marriages require spending time together and being there to help around the house or with any children you have. So, it stands to reason that cuts into the availability of one party to be present could leave their spouse feeling unhappy or overburdened. It’s similar to how the long periods away required of military members can often lead to the irreparable breakdown of their marriages.
Some couples can work through their issues, or adapt their work schedules or careers to better fit their marriage. Others may find that a divorce is best for both of them. Those on the verge of one can seek legal guidance to understand their options and protect their rights.